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    Being an Awesome Dad

    Having a good connection with you son or daughter is probably the most important part in being a good father. That means being able to communicate well with your child. How do you do it? I found some really good, common sense advice on how to do it well. Read on. Awesome Dads Top Ten Communication Intentions An Awesome Dad in by no means perfect. But that itself is perfect, because imperfection allows us to really understand the personal evolution our children are going through with us. The definition of an Awesome Dad, then, is the father who stays in…

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    12 Keys To Winning an Argument

    Excellent entry on lifehack.org. We all argue. It’s just part of life. Try to avoid it if you can. But if you do it, you might as well do it right. These points tell you exactly how. * Never Accuse your opponent of being wrong. * If you realize you made a mistake admit it immediately. * Be pleasant. * Get your opponent saying “yes” It is a proven technique. * Let them talk. “Enough rope,” “digging a hole” all that. * Be receptive. We’ve already established we could be wrong. * Make it their idea. * Play on their…

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    Join Toastmasters!

    Do you want to become a better communicator? A better speaker? Do you want a guarantee with that as well? I’m serius. Join a Toastmasters club! You will become a better communicator, a better speaker, and a more confident person. That’s a given. I’ll tell you my story. I joined the Fairleigh Early Birds Toastmasters in Rutherford, NJ a year a half ago. I was a chicken then: I did not want to speak in a group; I was afraid to speak; I had no eye contact. I was just a bad communicator. Since joining Toastmasters, I have become more…