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Learn Something New January 20th, 2006
Be Happy! December 20th, 2005
Find what you love June 28th, 2005
Career Success December 8th, 2004

Learn Something New

Just do it. And do it often.

Sounds easier than it is, I know. But I think it’s important to take the plunge and learn something new. Continously. We get to grow by doing that. We grow and see improvement only when we stretch ourselves. If you keep repeating the same things over and over, you’re going to get the same results. One of the quotes I remember and really like says the following:

“If you always do what you always did, you will always get what you always got.”

This year, I’ve got a lot of new things on my mind. I’d like to become a better software engineer, a better communicator, and a better person overall (better husband? :-) ). But how? I’m going to learn new technologies (web services, ajax) and new programming languages (Python) to become a better engineer. I’m going to try new techniques when I’m speaking/communicating at Toastmasters (I’m already getting a lot of ideas from the Toastmasters magazine); and try to improve my writing by trying new techniques to become a better communicator (I’m reading a good book on the subject now). And I’m also going to spend more quality time with my wife (this one is easy). I get a lot of ideas for improvement by reading books, and I read (and listen to books) a lot.

What are you going to do to improve? Think about it for a while.

Just remember: learn something that you don’t know yet. Try something else.

When you learn something new, you initially take a plunge. In essence, you become worse. You suck for a while. This period always happens. It’s hard. It’s tempting to go back to the old ways. Don’t do it. Get used to the new way. After some time adjusting, you will move to a new level. A level that would not have been possible had you been doing the same thing over and over (go ahead and re-read that quote :-) ).

Don’t be scared to suck for a while. It’s normal.

ReferenceBranching Out – Steve Pavlina (He elaborates more on this topic. Excellent read.)

Be Happy!

Did you know that happy people make more money? Did you know that happy people live longer? I have not read about it until now (see below), but I believe it’s true. So be happy, enjoy your life! Concentrate on the positives: we know there are negatives in everything, but see the positive instead.

Some excerpts from the article.

“Happiness, rather than working hard, is the key to success, according to research published today. Cheerful people are more likely to try new things and challenge themselves, which reinforces positive emotion and leads to success in work, good relationships and strong health, say psychologists.”

“The recipe for success: get happy and you will get ahead in life.”

Read this article, link below, and find out more!

:-) )))))

ReferenceThe recipe for success: get happy and you will get ahead in life — The Guardian

Find what you love

Steve Jobs is a very successful man. He has it all. He is still a human being: he has problems, letbacks, etc. He recently addressed the graduating class at Stanford. The speech that he gave is probably the best piece of writing I read in a really long time. If not ever. He shares his personal experiences there. He shares three intersting stories of his life. I really recommend that you read it. And re-read it.

Here is some great advice from Steve:

Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don’t lose faith. I’m convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You’ve got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don’t settle.

Are you living your life like it’s your last day in your life? Steve does. This is what he says.

When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: “If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you’ll most certainly be right.” It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: “If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?” And whenever the answer has been “No” for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.

How good is that? Just excellent.

Reference[1] Jobs: You’ve got to find what you love

Career Success

Do you want to be successful? That’s easy, :-) , follow these 5 easy steps. Deborah Brown-Volkman, in her article at net-temps.com, Career Success Is Within Your Reach, provides more detail.

I’ve read quite a few articles and books on success and the list below summarizes most of them. At least the good ones.

  1. Believe That You Will Be Successful
  2. Get The Facts
  3. Commit To Your Success
  4. Put A Plan In Place
  5. Keep Moving No Matter What

Believe, Plan, and Commit.

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